Email blogging again. I find it’s a great way to compose a post and pass time on the subway trip home.
I have found after going back to work that the most precious thing after God and family is time. I didn’t have much of it before I became a mom, so I surely have less of it now.
Our “day” really begins the night before. DH works nights, so he leaves at 10:35pm every night. Thereabouts, I also go to sleep. If I’m lucky, I’ve fallen asleep as he is getting ready and wake just enough for him to kiss me goodbye.
7:15am rolls around and he is back home. I get up and get ready for work, and DH gets Abby ready for daycare. I pack her lunch bag (something I want to start doing the night before) and by 7:50am, we are out the door and on our way.
I usually get into the office just after 9am and DH is home after dropping us off at our various locations by 8:30am. He wakes up, unfortunately, at 2:30 (a mere 6 hours of sleep if he’s lucky) and picks Abby up at 3. We do this for several reasons. The first is to save a little bit of money because we pay an hourly rate. The other is so that DH has more time with Abby.
I try to leave the office as close to 5 as possible and we are usually home no later than 6:15pm. From there it’s dinner for all of us and playtime before bed. Abby usually falls asleep when DH comes to pick me up, so she doesn’t go to bed at 7pm like a lot of parenting resources say toddlers should.
Abby is usually asleep around 8:30, which leaves me two hours to shower, tackle a to-do item or just relax. Then it starts all over again.
This does leave little room for essentials like cleaning, cooking, laundry, groceries and others, but I’m still learning and expect to be for a long time.
I have had to learn to relax when it comes to our daily routine, but not to be so lax that nothing gets done. On the flip side, I wish I had more energy to prep the night before so our mornings are less chaotic. That all being said, I think that for 3.5 months of figuring the balance out, we’re doing pretty well.
Do you have a daily routine that you follow? How does that work for your family? What do you wish you could improve on?
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